This is a very difficult entry to write...
Alisa Falconvale -- my partner in Second Life and InWorldz, and for whom both the InWorldz region and the pre-fab business is named -- has left Virtuality. She had no choice: personal finances, exacerbated by the general state of the economy and local conditions where she lives, forced her to disconnect her Internet service. She'd seen it coming for a long time, and she hung on as long as she could... but finally, the evening came when we began the sobering task of transferring everything possible from her (and her alt, Migisi Diavolo) to me.
It was very much like I imagine preparing for one's own organic death might be.
I'm hoping it was just bitterness talking, when she said that she wouldn't be back to InWorldz (and probably not SL, either), even after she gets back on her monetary feet and can reconnect to the Web. Even so, she was repeatedly adamant that I dissolve the partnership (she used the word "divorce") and get on with my virtual life.
One thing that did not happen during the transfer of ownership: All of her builds for sale at our showroom in the sky in InWorldz are still hers, and the payments will be going into an account whose owner will not return to collect (or use to buy textures for more building). I'm unsure, right now, what the best course is regarding that...
Ali was a much more prolific builder than I have been, and some of her works have been quite popular. I personally believe the denizens of InWorldz should still have the opportunity to own them. So, for the next little while, I'm going to leave everything just as it is. The region -- and the business -- will always be named Falconvale, in remembrance.
Otherwise, I can only wish that the same beneficial lightning which struck me last December, and saved my sorry pixel ass from the same fate, finds her... and soon.
Good luck, and be well, Ali. <3
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28 May, 2011 12:52
No words from any of us, could comfort either of you at a time like this. Hoping the rains of sadness bring some giant meadows of flowers for both of you. Alisa, wherever you are.... good luck!
28 May, 2011 14:42
Well, that truly sucks. Nothing is permanent, as they say, perhaps she can return soon.
28 May, 2011 15:58
so sorry to hear this. breaking up with a virtual partner is just as painful as RL, and no less real. my sincere condolences.
28 May, 2011 16:55
/me wipes away a tear. So sorry to hear this, Lalo. I hope Ali can return soon.
28 May, 2011 20:53
Lalo... I can say nothing that will ease what you feel.
A couple years ago my dear friend Twinkle Villota decided to leave virtual worlds. She had taught me the basics of computers, as well as provided the expertise to run a residential sim.
While we weren't a *couple*, as Wizzy said the emotional pain wasn't any easier.
Personally I have made arrangements that should something happen to me... there is/are those that have my password.
For me it's not just a monetary thing, I have those that have developed a community at Benares as well as they have a financial outlay there.
29 May, 2011 08:40
Lalo, as many before myself have said I wish you both all the best. I too hope everything gets better for Ali and soon as well. Perhaps her words were spoken in not in bitterness however out of her own fear. We all say things wrong at times when we hurt. It helps us to mask the pain. Nothing we say may help you feel great. Though know that we hope you find some comfort here. The losing of someone for any reason. Be it virtual or real life. Never becomes an easy task. Even more so when there is that real connection between the two persons. Just know that we hope all the best and hope she will return soon! *hugs*
29 May, 2011 14:22
I'm very sorry, Lalo. I hope you and Alisa will always keep in touch.
30 May, 2011 14:04
I am so sorry to read this Lalo. I have been admiring both your work for so long and I think I might understand how painful this must be for you both. I really hope things will get solved so that she can be back soon.
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30 May, 2011 15:51
I am terribly sorry - yes the loss to virtual creation will be great- but mostly I am deeply sorry for the loss you both must be feeling at the connection between you being severed. I don't think there is one of us that hasn't experienced some degree of that. Wishing the best for you both.
31 May, 2011 21:22
I'm sorry to hear this Lalo. I wish the best for you both. xo
02 June, 2011 11:29
Very sorry, Lalo.