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Let's begin with the most important:
Kate!
On the 12th of December, we became Partners -- with full awareness that Second Life partnerships are, on average, as ephemeral as mayflies (or dance clubs, for that matter). Still, I think we may be on to a winning formula: we haven't changed our separately-established habits, hangouts, or favorite activities. In short: we don't cling. There are other ways to express love than constantly being in each other's pockets.- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
A Meeting of Minds
One of my favorite blogs is When it Changed. Its author and I are of similar minds about many philosophical and social aspects of life in Second Life, and we've had some incisive discussions in each other's blog comments. I finally got around to IMing her inworld, where the conversation has remained penetrating and lively... and we finally met av-to-av, at Ahern.How the Leopard Changed his Spots
Oh, now and then you will hear grown-ups say, 'Can the Ethiopian change his skin or the Leopard his spots?' I don't think even grown-ups would keep on saying such a silly thing if the Leopard and the Ethiopian hadn't done it once--do you? But they will never do it again, Best Beloved. They are quite contented as they are.
-- Rudyard Kipling, "How the Leopard Got His Spots", from Just So Stories
In his reply, Argent Stonecutter invoked the concept of "species dysphoria", which is derived by analogy from gender dysphoria. Those who claim the condition (a.k.a therianthropes) feel they are "an animal trapped in a human body" (notwithstanding that humans are animals), and said condition is claimed by a tiny fraction of the furry community. Let's be clear on that: Most of us furries are no more than cosplayers, with no psychological difficulty attending to our biological human form. I certainly do not believe I have "species dysphoria", and I feel Argent was joking about it, too. Nevertheless, I have strongly resisted creating a human avatar... but the curiosity, and the challenge to create one that resembled my biological self, have done nothing but increase in my two years in SL. So, on Boxing Day, I finally went and did it.
Behold: Lalo Sapiens
No, I haven't "given up the fur". But now I have another shape to shift into.
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